Etiquette: the rules of behavior that are standard in a polite society; the rules governing professional conduct.

Dear Brethren,

As we "travel" in our Lodge and hold "Masonic communication," sometimes we forget this little word, etiquette. It's hard enough to spell, never mind adhering to what it means. Sometimes we get a little too relaxed and forget where we are and what we are here to do.

Our Lodge is not a "sacred" place, but a certain amount of respect is required. We are here to perform every duty with fidelity. We do enjoy a friendly and casual atmosphere, but should not ignore the seriousness or our labors. It is amazing how the slightest idle "chit chat" on the sidelines can be heard throughout the Lodge and becomes a distraction. You see this happen in man Lodges and sometimes appears to be the normal thing to do!

We have to ask ourselves, are we doing our degree work to the best of our ability? Are we "squaring" our corners as we travel? Are we standing at the proper time and the proper way? Do we greet each brother that we meet the way we should? Masonry has been around for many years. And if we start to change the work, even slightly, it becomes a bad habit and eventually will be lost.

Entering and retiring from the Lodge while it is at labor should be done properly and swiftly also. When you are arriving late, do you go directly to your seat after being greeted, or do you shake some hands and talk a little bit with some brothers? When leaving the Lodge room early before it's closed, do you salute and exit properly? Did the Master even know you were leaving?

Some of these things seems petty and not too important, but this is what makes a Lodge operate professionally and look good. We have a great Lodge and a real great bunch of guys. It's just sometimes our apple needs a little "polishing."

Fraternally Yours,

Edward Gasior W.M.